Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"I think people would be surprised at what a normal life I live. Like people always assume I have chefs and nannies and butlers - It's like, I don't have any of that shit, you know? And so, I think, I don't know. I think I'm way more normal than people probably think." — Kristin Cavallari
"I think the hardest part was watching him get the shit beat out of him week after week. You know, football's a really tough sport. And so that was difficult, especially after we had kids too." — Kristin Cavallari
"You know, my kids may want no part of being known or whatever, and I want to respect that and give them that chance to decide when they're old enough." — Kristin Cavallari
Kristin Cavallari reflects on her early career in reality television, starting with "Laguna Beach," and how the unfiltered nature of early shows contrasted with later productions. She discusses the emotional toll of being portrayed as a villain and the impact it had on her trust issues, exacerbated by adults manipulating situations for the show. Cavallari emphasizes her decision to keep her children off social media to allow them autonomy over their own digital presence when they are older. The conversation then shifts to her personal life, detailing her marriage to Jay Cutler, the challenges of dating athletes, and the eventual divorce. She highlights the importance of recognizing and not ignoring red flags in relationships and trusting one's intuition.
The discussion delves into Cavallari's dating experiences post-divorce, particularly navigating the complexities of modern dating apps and social media. She expresses a preference for being pursued and the need for potential partners to demonstrate effort. Cavallari also shares candid anecdotes about challenging dates, including interactions with actors and the difficulties of finding a partner who aligns with her current life stage. She reiterates her desire for a partner who is comfortable in their own skin and avoids toxic relationship dynamics, emphasizing that personal growth has equipped her to identify and avoid such situations.
Finally, Cavallari touches upon her current ventures, including her podcast and her company, Uncommon James. She explains how she balances her public-facing career with a desire for a more private, normal life, particularly from her home outside of Nashville. She asserts that while her income is tied to her public profile, she is not actively seeking press outside of her business endeavors and has learned to reframe narratives to maintain her mental well-being. Cavallari concludes by emphasizing that her experiences, both positive and negative, have contributed to her current self-awareness and business acumen.