Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"I think in ways of just like when I think about the whole music experience and my recording That song experience and just my life at that time there was so much wang on me in terms of like who everybody wanted me to be But now at 28 I think I'm much more confident in and believing that whatever I feel is right is right I'm not struggling with trying to prove so much to the people around me I'm kind of like either you're gonna get it or you're not gonna get it." — Keke Palmer
"I felt so alone I'm telling you like it was it's such a loneliness I would not wish on my worst enemy you know there's no way out of this You know I just it was just a really a sense of like hopelessness as it pertains to human connection and interaction And that's something that I thrive on. It's what made me love performing And now I can barely connect to people and people can barely connect to me." — Keke Palmer
"I think the number one thing for me that lets me know is like if I'm afraid to go hang out with my friends Like if I'm afraid to like oh I don't want to hurt their feelings because you know I know they want to spend time with me And you know what I'm not going to hang like so once you start abandoning your own personal desires for the relationship Out of like you don't want to hurt their feelings or you're afraid they'll get mad at you Or you are already thinking about when you might need them So you're going to do this to make sure like when you got to do stuff like that You should feel comfortable in your relationship to be like I'm gonna go hang out with my friends By totally you know or I'm gonna go do this by so again Obviously you can continue to work on like your relationship with your mother for the rest of your life." — Keke Palmer
Keke Palmer joined Alex Cooper on "Call Her Daddy" to discuss the profound impact of her early start in the entertainment industry. She detailed the unexpected challenges of child stardom, including the pressure to conform and the resulting feelings of isolation. Palmer reflected on her career, from early music success with "Bottoms Up" to her current independent ventures, highlighting the evolution of her confidence and self-belief. She emphasized the distinction between being seen and truly being understood, noting that fame can sometimes lead to a feeling of being more unseen.
The conversation delved into the complexities of codependency, both within family dynamics and romantic relationships. Palmer shared personal experiences, illustrating how unchecked codependency can hinder intimacy and personal growth. She offered practical advice on identifying warning signs and the importance of setting firm boundaries, suggesting that mental preparation is key to navigating difficult relationship endings. Palmer also touched upon her struggles with acne, reframing it not just as a physical issue but also as a potential manifestation of internal stress and a lack of self-acceptance, advocating for self-love and authenticity.
The episode also explored relationship advice, including opinions on physical versus emotional cheating (with a strong leaning towards emotional cheating being more damaging), the idea that a cheater is not always a cheater, and the general consensus that dating an ex of a close friend is ill-advised. Palmer also discussed the importance of discussing future plans, such as having children, early in a relationship, and shared candid thoughts on checking a partner's phone, trusting one's gut instincts, and the best way to get over being cheated on by focusing on self-love and rebuilding confidence. The discussion concluded with Palmer's excitement for her role in Jordan Peele's upcoming film, "Nope," and her reflections on the demanding nature of acting, particularly in horror films.