Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"Texting can genuinely make or break a new potential relationship. That's a fact. This is the day and age that we live in." — Alex Cooper
"If you're just looking for a real genuine relationship, texting less is more." — Alex Cooper
"There is no such thing as a guy being just a bad texture. If you're only relying on text communication with this man and he's doing a bad job, babe, raise the bar by a fucking centimeter." — Alex Cooper
The episode delves into the intricate role of texting in contemporary dating, with host Alex Cooper strongly advocating for prioritizing in-person interactions. Cooper argues that while texting can serve as a helpful tool for initial planning and building comfort before a first date, it frequently creates a misleading sense of intimacy and can mask a lack of genuine chemistry. She illustrates this point with personal anecdotes, including a lengthy texting relationship with an NFL player that ultimately failed due to a lack of real-world connection, highlighting how curated text conversations can lead individuals to fall for an idealized version of a person rather than their authentic self.
Cooper further elaborates on the pitfalls of excessive texting, likening it to a "pen pal" situation that can quickly become monotonous or lead to covering too much ground prematurely, leaving little to discuss when meeting in person. She stresses that the nuances of tone, humor, and genuine connection are best perceived through face-to-face communication. Cooper also advises listeners to be wary of seeking validation solely through texting responses and to observe a partner's tangible efforts to meet and engage in real life as a more reliable indicator of interest.
The latter part of the episode addresses listener questions, providing advice on sensitive relationship issues such as disclosing past infidelity, navigating a friend's questionable behavior while house-sitting, and ending a relationship amicably when no significant wrongdoing has occurred. In each case, Cooper emphasizes honest communication, setting clear boundaries, and prioritizing one's own well-being and happiness.