Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"The point is there's no pressure. That helps me not feel suffocated knowing that in the back of my mind because essentially it also helps that I put the carpet before the horse." — Alex Cooper
"I was a substitute teacher. ... So you were being a teacher. What did you want to do with your life though while you're being a substitute teacher? Well, I am a registered behavior technician, so I work with children who have autism. It's amazing." — Alex Cooper & Katie Florence
"And your how old are you? 24. I'm 24. And this was recent. This was recent. So you just had your first orgasm during sex. Yes. And I've been having sex for quite some time. I started having sex at a very young age." — Alex Cooper & Katie Florence
The episode begins with host Alex Cooper reflecting on her extended stay in London and her ongoing therapy sessions. She discusses a realization that she has been equating companionship with a loss of independence, a notion challenged by her current living situation. Cooper introduces the concept of a "relationship bootcamp" as a means to practice stability and companionship without sacrificing personal autonomy. This introspective segment sets the stage for an interview with Katie Florence, a "Daddy Gang" member and content creator.
Florence shares her journey of pivoting careers during quarantine, moving from substitute teaching and behavior technician work to creating viral TikTok content called "The Council." She reveals that her inspiration for this pivot stemmed from a negative dating experience on New Year's Eve, where she was ghosted by someone she liked, leading her to pursue a more creative and communicative outlet. Florence also candidly discusses her past struggles with ghosting, clinginess, and her recent experience of achieving her first orgasm during sex, highlighting the importance of partners focusing on mutual satisfaction.
The conversation shifts to deeper discussions about toxic relationships, manipulation, and the challenges of dating within interracial contexts. Florence shares experiences with a man she calls "Mr. Big," detailing manipulative conversations and racialized compliments she has received. Cooper interjects frequently, offering commentary and reinforcing messages of self-worth, healthy boundaries, and the importance of recognizing and escaping toxic dynamics. The episode concludes with the "Questions of the Week" segment, addressing listener dilemmas about relationship commitment, dealing with "fuck boys," and navigating complicated dating scenarios.