Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"It's fun to talk about this stuff in a healthy way with your partner and by healthy I want to clarify I don't mean that when Matt and I are getting in a fight I'm like 'oh yeah that red socks player fucked me so good I'm gonna go call him now' no that's literally emotionally abusive and manipulative that's not what I'm talking about I'm talking about us joking sitting talking reminiscing and I'm like oh my god baby like I remember this one time so embarrassingly I literally bit this guy's dick as I was trying to give him head he had this curved penis it was so like it's supposed to be fun and and you should feel closer to your partner and you should feel secure enough to know that our relationship is so solid I don't care who you fucked in your past this is the present in the future like we're good." — Alex Cooper
"The men in the comments like I said are just giving property I'm that's property baby like I can't talk about the athletes that I fucked and sucked because Matt owns me now literally go fuck yourselves like you're just giving an awful awful misogynistic man that I don't even know what woman would want to fuck you because you're just so so tiny dick energy." — Alex Cooper
"The thing is as I reflect and it didn't take me long it's kind of obvious but I just have to fucking say it I don't think their reactions have anything at all to do with Matt and me and our relationship no one's actually genuinely fucking confused if anything people really really want him to like take the ring away to prove their point but this isn't about me and Matt our relationship this is about the people commenting in their own relationship and their own deep deep seated insecurities." — Alex Cooper
The podcast episode addresses listener reactions to a recent "Call Her Daddy" episode where host Alex Cooper discussed her past sexual experiences from college. Cooper clarifies that the backlash, particularly from men and some women, stems from personal insecurities and societal misogyny rather than genuine concern for her fiancé, Matt. She emphasizes that in a healthy relationship, partners can discuss past experiences openly, fostering intimacy and understanding, and that these conversations should not be weaponized to create insecurity.
Cooper argues that many negative comments reveal deeper issues like fear of abandonment, infidelity in past relationships, or a general lack of trust, leading individuals to project their own anxieties onto her situation. She contrasts this with her own relationship, stating Matt is aware of and proud of her work, and that their dynamic allows for lighthearted reminiscing about past experiences. The host criticizes the notion that a partner's past sexual history diminishes their present value or desirability, labeling such views as controlling and misogynistic.
The episode also touches upon the "Gluck Luck 9000," a technique developed during her college years, as a nod to the show's origins and the host's personal journey. Cooper concludes by encouraging listeners to reflect on their own relationship dynamics if they find themselves triggered by partner's past, suggesting that such reactions may indicate an unhealthy relationship or unaddressed personal issues. She reiterates that healthy partnerships are built on mutual respect and security, allowing for an individual's entire life story to be acknowledged and appreciated.