Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"So thank you guys for listening, also if you didn't fucking listen that episode and you're like hey Al, you're speaking fucking gibberish, go listen to my episode, I got caught photoshopping." — Alex Cooper
"So the positive is that something you enjoy, so does your boyfriend, okay? So we start there. Now the excessiveness, you can work on that." — Alex Cooper
"So I would say text him Saturday night if you don't want to be like five o'clock like what are your plans for Saturday night text him at like ten and be like what are you up to tonight if you know he's out and like just fucking go for it life is so fucking short I don't give a fuck about waiting and I don't do stubborn anymore I do aggressive and to the fucking point we don't got time to fucking waste daddy gang there are global pandemics here okay" — Alex Cooper
The episode begins with Alex Cooper reflecting on the impact of a previous episode about photoshopping, highlighting how it inspired listeners to reconsider their reliance on social media validation. She emphasizes that self-worth should not be tied to likes or comments, and that it's normal to feel this way but important to manage. This leads into a discussion about personal digital archives, specifically regarding intimate photos. Cooper strongly advises listeners to keep their own intimate photos, framing them as personal "NFTs" and a responsible way to preserve memories and self-image, encouraging external backup for safety.
The conversation then shifts to relationship dilemmas, including a listener's friend who had an affair and is now trying to proceed as if nothing happened. Cooper advises against getting overly involved in others' relationship drama, suggesting that while it's understandable to feel frustrated, it's often best to focus on one's own journey and boundaries. She also addresses a listener's exploration of kink with their boyfriend, who has become very enthusiastic, leading to discussions about sex therapy and managing expectations for spontaneity versus daily exploration. Cooper suggests communication and potentially attending therapy together as a supportive measure, while also offering a nuanced perspective on the boyfriend's potential underlying insecurities.
Finally, the episode touches on post-sex etiquette, the anxiety of STDs and condom usage, and strategies for making an ex jealous. Cooper advocates for clear communication, prioritizing sexual health above all else, and suggests creative, indirect methods for sparking jealousy rather than overt actions. She concludes by promoting proactive communication and decisive action in romantic pursuits, emphasizing that life is too short for prolonged games of "hard to get."