Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"You need to do it yourself to know what you like. 1000%. Like if you cannot and for people listening, like if you can't make yourself orgasm. How do you expect to teach a partner how to make you orgasm?" — Alex Cooper
"If these people don't believe in me like fuck them, I'm going to find someone who does and I'm going to prove them wrong." — Ileane Kelly
"It's like, why are women reduced to that? Right? Like her songs are great, go listen to her fucking song." — Alex Cooper
The episode begins by revisiting the topic of masturbation, with Alex Cooper expressing gratitude for listener feedback and the positive impact the discussion has had. The conversation delves into the societal shame and lack of education surrounding female masturbation, with both Alex and guest Ileane Kelly sharing personal experiences and insights on how cultural norms and early upbringing can affect one's relationship with their sexuality. They discuss the importance of self-discovery, encouraging listeners to explore their bodies, use lubrication, and not be afraid to experiment with different techniques and resources like pornography, while also acknowledging the potential downsides of certain content.
The latter half of the episode shifts to the professional realm, focusing on the challenges of navigating agent relationships. Both Alex and Ileane recount instances of being dismissed or not having their career aspirations fully supported by their agents, particularly when seeking to pivot their professional focus. They discuss the politics and "small dick energy" that can be present in the industry, emphasizing the importance of resilience, self-belief, and finding representation that aligns with one's evolving goals. The conversation also touches upon the impact of social media, cyberbullying, and the pressure to conform to certain appearance standards, highlighting the need for authenticity and kindness in online interactions.
The hosts encourage listeners to embrace their sexuality without shame, to advocate for themselves in their careers, and to be mindful of the human impact of online communication. They stress that self-acceptance and personal growth are ongoing journeys, and that setbacks can often lead to finding more supportive and aligned paths forward. The episode concludes by reinforcing the message of empowerment and self-love as the holiday season approaches.