
Call Her Daddy
"I think chugi is kind of cringed. It's like, you know, cringed clothing or cringed, you know, things that I don't know. There's a cringed element to chugi. I personally think that anything that's basic, it's just like leaning in so hard is something that you really love and doing that unapologetically." — Stassi Schroeder
"The success of a show is like directly tied to how badly the cast hurts each other. And that like feels weird." — Stassi Schroeder
"I think that I've learned that like the power of saying no to things and not caring about like, well, if someone give me mad at me if I'm not going to what they just asked me to do or if I say no to like a FaceTime or like, I don't respond to a text message." — Stassi Schroeder
The episode opens with hosts Alex Cooper and Stassi Schroeder discussing their podcasting setup and comfort levels, quickly transitioning into Stassi's current pregnancy experience. Stassi highlights the difference between her current pregnancy and her first, which occurred during COVID-19 lockdowns, noting the lack of typical pregnancy experiences like receiving help with doors. They discuss the pressure to look a certain way during pregnancy and the comfort found in different clothing styles. The conversation then delves into the pressures of selecting outfits for public appearances, especially when feeling less confident due to pregnancy.
Later, the discussion shifts to the broader impact of reality television, reflecting on how the landscape has changed with the rise of social media and the intense public scrutiny participants now face. Both guests express a desire for more authentic representation and less focus on interpersonal conflict driving show success. They also touch upon personal growth, reflecting on their younger selves in the context of their reality TV personas versus their current lives as mothers and professionals. Stassi shares insights into her writing process and her books, while Alex discusses her tour and the creative challenges involved.
The latter half of the episode explores themes of personal preferences evolving with age, the definition of "basic" versus "cringed," and the societal shift towards self-expression in fashion. They touch on topics like "get ready with me" videos, the use of Ozempic, and the concept of manifesting. The conversation also revisits Stassi's past behavior, particularly her "dark passenger" episodes, and how she manages anger and trust issues within her current relationship. The episode concludes with reflections on the transition into their 30s, the importance of setting boundaries, and the challenges and rewards of motherhood and career.