Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"I need confidence, but not cockiness. And that is something. I need somebody who is like respectful and like a good human." — Shay Mitchell
"Independence means that, like, I can make my own moves and do what I want to do. And, like, when I want to do something, I do it." — Shay Mitchell
"Life is too short. And you only recognize that when you're in a moment where you realize that, which doesn't happen for all of us, but it's like, I don't want to wait for that moment if when it happens to be like, oh shit, I should have done this differently or why did I waste those days or those sleepless nights worrying about this." — Shay Mitchell
In this episode of Call Her Daddy, host Alex Cooper interviews actress Shay Mitchell, exploring themes of relationships, independence, and personal growth. Mitchell shares her perspective on dating, emphasizing the importance of confidence, respect, and good character over any specific type. She reflects on her past dating experiences as opportunities for self-discovery, highlighting that her 20s were a period of experimentation and learning what she desired, which ultimately shaped her into the person she is today. She articulates a strong belief in independence, defining it as the freedom to make one's own decisions and pursue personal goals without external constraints, a value deeply ingrained from a formative experience where her parents repossessed a car they had bought for her.
The conversation delves into Mitchell's approach to relationships, including her partnership and co-parenting of two daughters. She expresses a preference for the term "partner" and discusses her personal feelings about marriage, emphasizing commitment and family building over traditional marital labels. Mitchell also touches on the challenges and joys of motherhood, acknowledging the significant life transition it represents and the importance of maintaining one's individual identity alongside parental roles. She advocates for self-care and personal time post-childbirth, suggesting the need for postpartum support and celebrations for mothers.
Mitchell further discusses the complexities of trust and communication in relationships, particularly when a partner has a demanding career involving travel and social events. She stresses that while it can be difficult, open communication and a strong foundation of trust are paramount. She advises listeners struggling with insecurity in relationships to focus on self-love and to communicate their needs clearly. The episode concludes with reflections on the value of authentic friendships and the courage to end relationships, whether romantic or platonic, that no longer serve one's personal growth or well-being.