
Call Her Daddy
"I need confidence, but not cockiness. And that is something. I need somebody who is like respectful and like a good human." — Shay Mitchell
"I just want to be free. Like I just want to be me, whatever that is." — Shay Mitchell
"You need to be in love with yourself more then. You need to love yourself more." — Shay Mitchell
In this episode of Call Her Daddy, host Alex Cooper sits down with actress Shay Mitchell to delve into a variety of personal and professional topics. Mitchell shares insights from her dating life in her twenties, describing a philosophy of saying "yes" to experiences for their experiential value while maintaining control. She emphasizes that she has no specific "type" and prioritizes confidence, respect, and being a "good human" in partners. The conversation also touches on Mitchell's career, including her breakthrough role in "Pretty Little Liars," which she credits with changing her life and expresses gratitude for.
The discussion then shifts to Mitchell's perspective on relationships and family. She explains her preference for the term "partner" over more traditional labels, emphasizing the collaborative aspect of her relationship. Mitchell discusses her deliberate choice not to prioritize marriage, focusing instead on building a strong partnership and family foundation. She advocates for a more nuanced approach to motherhood, acknowledging the profound shift it brings while stressing the importance of maintaining individual identity and self-care.
Throughout the episode, Mitchell underscores the significance of independence and self-worth. She recounts a formative experience where her parents took away her car to teach her about ownership, solidifying her commitment to self-reliance. This translates into her belief that one's value should not be tied to external validation or possessions. Mitchell encourages listeners to embrace their own journey, learn from their experiences, and prioritize their own happiness and growth, particularly in their twenties, to build a solid foundation for future relationships.
Assumed to be referencing Charlie's Angels, a common cultural reference point for relationship advice. ↩