Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"You're basically playing back the last 20 years ish of your life and you're like, it's all just going through your mind as I'm watching this because I'm like looking at this like little like pudgy face, like 20 on your old, like a lot of bronze are on and like questionable clothing, which is coming back, which is also very confusing." — Rachel Bilson
"I think that the support system you have around you is huge. All my best friends are my best friends since high school and before and junior high. Never strayed from that. I don't make new friends often. And my family, I have a very supportive family." — Rachel Bilson
"I've gotten to a place now where I know exactly what I want, what I need, and for the first time, I'm not afraid to say it." — Rachel Bilson
The podcast episode features a conversation between host Alex Cooper and actress Rachel Bilson, delving into Bilson's experiences as a young actress on the hit television show "The O.C." Bilson shares her emotional reaction to rewatching the show years later, reflecting on the profound life changes that have occurred since her early twenties and the surreal experience of seeing her younger self on screen. She discusses the unique dynamics of dating a co-star, Adam Brody, and how their on-screen chemistry mirrored their off-screen relationship, highlighting the potential confusion that can arise from such situations. The conversation touches on the intense attention and fame that accompanied the show's success and how Bilson's relationship provided a stable anchor during that period.
Bilson also reflects on her personal high school experiences, contrasting them with her character Summer Roberts' on-screen persona, and discusses the traumatic impact of the character Marissa Cooper's death on the show and its cast. The conversation then shifts to Bilson's upbringing, being raised by a sex therapist, and how this influenced her open household and comfort with discussing sexuality. She candidly shares personal anecdotes about losing her virginity, the challenges of experiencing pleasure, and the societal pressure to feign orgasms, emphasizing the importance of honesty and self-acceptance in sexual relationships. Bilson also offers insights into navigating differing sex drives in relationships and the importance of self-check-ins.
The latter part of the episode focuses on Bilson's insights into relationships, particularly after experiencing a difficult breakup during the pandemic. She discusses how isolation and introspection during that period led to significant personal growth and a clearer understanding of her needs and boundaries. Bilson elaborates on identifying red flags, the importance of self-care, and her current relationship status, which is positive and fulfilling. She also touches on themes of self-involvement often observed in actors and her preference for partners who are supportive and understanding, especially concerning her role as a mother. Bilson concludes by discussing the cathartic nature of sharing personal experiences on podcasts and the importance of authenticity and setting a positive example for her daughter.