Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"The words are real. So it's not scripted. It's incredibly staged. So the environment is incredibly staged environment. It's controlled. And they do that deliberately because it's perfectly designed to elicit the maximum amount of emotions that anyone could possibly have with anyone." — Nick Viall
"If everyone likes you, you're also probably then again, maybe a people pleaser and you just wanna like be a chameleon and you're trying to find your way to just fit in rather than like just be yourself and see where that gets you. Which is probably a better spot." — Alex Cooper
"When you're in any type of relationship or a situation or dating thing, you need to be mindful of the energy you put out. The energy you give, right? Because that doesn't mean don't chase. I think everyone, the excited person, I don't care, what your gender is, you should chase. You should go for what you want, right?" — Nick Viall
The episode features an interview with Nick Viall and his girlfriend, Natalie Joy, by host Alex Cooper on "Call Her Daddy." Nick Viall, known for his multiple appearances on "The Bachelor" franchise, discusses his experiences with the show, clarifying that while it is "incredibly staged," the emotions and words spoken are generally real. He highlights the psychological impact of reality television and the importance of not reading into online commentary. The conversation then shifts to Nick and Natalie's relationship, detailing how Natalie initiated contact by sliding into Nick's DMs. They discuss the early stages of their relationship, including Nick's initial hesitation due to an age difference and their respective lifestyles, and Natalie's persistent yet graceful pursuit.
A significant portion of the discussion centers on dating advice and relationship dynamics. Nick emphasizes the importance of being mindful of the energy one puts out in relationships and encouraging individuals to actively pursue what they want rather than playing games. Both Nick and Natalie share insights on red flags, the concept of "hope" being a sign of what's missing in a relationship, and the value of gratitude lists. They explore the concept of "giving away your power" and how it can lead to confusion and unhappiness. The couple also touches upon their communication styles, pet peeves, and how they navigate arguments, highlighting the importance of taking timeouts.
The conversation delves into the impact of past traumas and trust issues, with Natalie sharing her experiences and Nick detailing his empathetic response. They discuss the significance of honesty and vulnerability in building a strong foundation, even when it leads to uncomfortable truths. The episode concludes with a discussion on their love languages, the challenges of maintaining intimacy when living together, and their aspirations for marriage and children, emphasizing their commitment to growth and mutual respect.