Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"The only way that you're actually going to be ready to engage and be ready for a serious commitment is if that you change yourself in terms of your fears and your insecurities and whatever is freaking you out and maybe at the end of it you realize oh I'm really not someone that wants to be in a monogamous situation and I don't want to get married and that's okay but you using the words scared like anyone listening it starts with ourselves and if we're not actually working on ourselves then how are we ever going to know if the thing in front of us we're giving it a true chance." — Alex Cooper
"I think a lot of people in college look at college as if it's a bubble and it's like this period of your life where you feel like you're an adult which you're not fully an adult because you are living in this bubble and it is great and it's amazing and it's fun but there's no actual feelings of the one you get out of college where are you living how are you paying rent where what is your new job all of you are dispersed your friends aren't in one location you're not all going to the same classes you're not all congregating in the dining hall you don't have this sense of camaraderie and this ease of social interaction that you did when you were in college." — Alex Cooper
"It is so disrespectful because you feel like this like creepy annoying person that's like snooping on him and it's actually not half the time you're just fucking scrolling and you just see like oh my boyfriend's name is on this bikini photo like what the fuck is going on so I empathize so much because I've gone through this and the other side I remember my one of my ex-boyfriends would whenever I would confront him a lot of the times he would be like oh my gosh like I don't even pay attention when I'm on Instagram like I didn't even notice I liked that photo and it's like no it takes a physical motion to double tap like it's so much easier to just fucking scroll right past the newties but somehow you're like pause stare double tap unless you're like double tap double tap double like that's just not the case because you know what half the time you wasn't liking my fucking photo so I'm like liar." — Alex Cooper
The episode begins with the host reflecting on her personal struggles with waking up early, contrasting it with her fiancé's disciplined morning routine. This personal anecdote sets a tone of introspection that carries through the Q&A session. The host then addresses listener questions, starting with wedding planning, where she expresses uncertainty about her ideal location and admits to never having pictured her own wedding until recently. She emphasizes the importance of personal comfort and evolving desires in making such decisions.
A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to relationship advice. The host tackles the fear of commitment and self-sabotage, stressing that internal work and self-awareness are paramount before entering serious relationships. She also discusses the immaturity often found in college relationships, attributing it to a lack of real-world responsibilities and a focus on social exploration rather than long-term partnership building. The host advises listeners to set realistic expectations and embrace this phase for self-discovery.
Further discussions delve into trust issues and navigating a partner's online behavior. The host advocates for open communication and emphasizes that while a partner can be supportive, individuals must undertake their own introspection and work to overcome deep-seated trust issues stemming from past experiences. Regarding partner behavior, she advises that liking provocative photos of unknown individuals online is disrespectful in a committed relationship and that partners should be mindful of their actions and apologize when they cause discomfort. The host concludes by expressing gratitude for her audience and hinting at exciting future developments for the podcast.