"Everyone wants everyone to be their true selves on social media. But then when they are, someone is always waiting to criticize when you're honest." — Alex Cooper
"The more I'm criticized on the internet, the less I fucking care." — Alex Cooper
"I have so much anxiety before I post an Instagram now. If it's at all showing my body. And if it's like me and Odin's wet pants, I'm like, oh, how does my face look? But other than that, I'm like, okay, whatever. But if anything is like could be highly scrutinized and like picked apart and like zoomed in on and stuff, the anxiety that I was getting from posting these photos reminded me of why I just keep posting in my hoodies and my sweatpants because it's like, it's exhausting." — Alex Cooper
The episode begins with the host, Alex Cooper, reflecting on her recent experiences and personal growth. She details a trip to Hawaii, initially intended for relaxation, which became a catalyst for confronting her insecurities surrounding body image and social media. A specific incident involving a photograph and the discovery of a "banana roll" under her buttock led to significant personal distress and a confrontation with online criticism. Cooper openly discusses how this experience, coupled with past instances of body shaming, has made her question the authenticity and impact of social media portrayals. She shares her internal struggle with self-acceptance, the pressure to appear perfect, and the anxieties that accompany posting personal images online.
Cooper further elaborates on her emotional response to online comments and DMs regarding her appearance, highlighting the disconnect between the public's desire for authenticity and the harsh criticism that often follows when individuals present their natural selves. She recounts a consultation with a plastic surgeon regarding the "banana roll," ultimately deciding against the procedure, and expresses a newfound resolve to embrace her body as it is. This segment serves as a candid exploration of body dysmorphia, self-esteem, and the complex relationship between public figures and their audiences in the digital age.
The episode concludes with an exciting announcement: Jamie Lynn Spears will be the first guest on "Call Her Daddy" in the new year. Cooper details the extensive interview process and reveals that the episode will be a two-part series, available with video on Spotify. This announcement signals a significant upcoming content release for the podcast, shifting the focus from personal reflection to an anticipated high-profile interview.