Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"Comparison is the thief of joy." — Kelsey Ballerini (quoted by Lauren)
The episode opens with Alex Cooper and Lauren discussing their return from holiday breaks, with Lauren sharing details of her trip to St. Martin with her boyfriend's family. She describes it as a fun and comforting experience, highlighting the joy of feeling like she has a larger family. The conversation touches upon Lauren's previous discomfort with boats due to seasickness, contrasting it with her St. Martin experience which included a boat day with unlimited rum punch and enjoyable meals. Alex contrasts this with her own holiday, which involved her boyfriend Matt's grandmother's 100th birthday party and a ski trip to Deer Valley, Utah, facilitated by a private plane. Both hosts discuss their preferences for quiet, cozy holidays over large celebrations, emphasizing the value of genuine connection and relaxation.
A significant portion of the discussion revolves around social media and its impact on self-perception. Lauren shares her experience of deleting social media over two years ago and how a brief moment of checking her mother's phone led to feelings of comparison and insecurity about her own vacation. This leads to a broader conversation about the curated nature of online content and the pressure to present a perfect image, with both hosts agreeing that authentic living is more fulfilling. The episode also delves into Alex's upcoming wedding, with the reveal of her unique, "insider joke" save-the-dates and plans for personalized wedding details like custom sweatsuits and welcome gifts. She expresses excitement about planning the wedding and her commitment to making it a personal reflection of her relationship with Matt.
The hosts also touch upon their approaches to New Year's Eve, favoring intimate gatherings and relaxed evenings over large parties. They discuss how societal expectations around holidays and relationships can create pressure, particularly for single individuals. Lauren reflects on her past experiences of faking holiday plans for social media, reinforcing the theme of authenticity. The episode concludes with both hosts expressing excitement for the year ahead, particularly for Alex's wedding, and encouraging listeners to live by their own pace and in their own "bubbles."