Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"I think something that you had talked to me about that was like I think very relatable was like this was the first relationship that you were like I actually felt like I was like this person like genuinely loved me and like I was genuinely in love so it's hard to walk away from that." — Alex Cooper
"I was like, oh my god, I'm having a kid at 35 right and like so I started playing that game and like that was like kind of like suffocating and like consuming." — Lauren
"It's like, no no no you haven't even started the fucking marathon yet you are literally just putting on your fucking outfit in your gear you're not even in the race yet." — Alex Cooper
The episode begins with Alex Cooper and Lauren discussing a recent girls' weekend in Los Angeles, recounting humorous past experiences with potent margaritas. The conversation then shifts to Lauren's recent breakup from a serious, long-term relationship, which was approaching engagement. Lauren details her commitment to no-contact and the significant personal growth she has experienced over the past five months. She reflects on how this period has allowed her to focus inward, engage in self-work, and gain clarity on her needs and desires in a partner, emphasizing that she is not seeking to fill a deficit but rather to build a partnership.
The discussion delves into the seriousness of Lauren's previous relationship, revealing that her ex-boyfriend had initiated engagement plans, including speaking with her family and friends. Lauren shares the internal conflict she experienced, weighing the desire for a future with someone she loved against fundamental incompatibilities. Alex highlights the importance of honest conversations with friends during such critical junctures, emphasizing support and guidance without judgment. They explore the societal pressure to adhere to timelines for marriage and children, particularly as their friend group is largely moving into these stages.
Lauren articulates a profound shift in her perspective on life milestones, especially regarding motherhood. She expresses that while she previously felt a strong certainty about having children, she now feels a sense of freedom and peace in embracing her current phase of self-focus. Both Alex and Lauren emphasize the value of introspection, self-reliance, and the realization that external milestones are not the sole determinants of happiness. They conclude by looking forward to a summer filled with personal joy and potential announcements, celebrating their individual journeys and the strength of their friendship.