
Call Her Daddy
"When you say you love someone, there is truly like an acceptable timeline that you can say that and you should have zero fucking anxiety about saying it." — Alex
"If this is something that's going to bother you I think you've got to bring it up because this is one of those things that if you never bring it up it's just going to be on the back of your mind and you're going to then start to act weird and you're going to have all these opinions and you're going to jump to conclusions without actually speaking him." — Alex
"If you're seeing this document the last thing you want to do is be another fucking notch on that belt you had him for a year and a half let the world have him and move the fuck on." — Alex
The host, Alex, opens the episode by addressing listener questions, shifting from a desire for vacation to a focus on work. The first question concerns the appropriate time to express "I love you" in a year-long relationship where neither party has said it. Alex advises that after a year, it's a reasonable time to express these feelings, suggesting that holding back can lead to regret. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and preparing for potential outcomes, encouraging listeners not to waste time in relationships where feelings may not be reciprocated.
The second question involves a listener discovering her boyfriend has an OnlyFans account. Alex suggests approaching this with curiosity and open communication, rather than immediate judgment. She recommends a non-confrontational approach to understand the boyfriend's motivations and gauge personal boundaries. The third query focuses on a loss of attraction in a long-term relationship. Alex proposes changing routines or creating distance to re-evaluate feelings. She stresses that if attraction is significantly diminished and negatively impacting intimacy, it may be a sign that the relationship is no longer a good fit, particularly after a year and a half.
The episode also touches upon the topic of sexual intimacy and enhancing orgasms through clitoral stimulation, encouraging listeners to take an active role in their pleasure or communicate their needs to their partner. The host concludes with advice for a listener who discovered their ex-boyfriend meticulously tracked his dating life after their breakup, advising her to close the document and focus on her own healing and moving forward.