
Call Her Daddy
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"I don't want to be depressing. I just want to like validate you Like if you're fucking struggling and I and I'm not even saying like your 30s shouldn't be I just want you all to pause for a minute if you're been feeling a little fucking shit lately" — Alex Cooper (offering validation to listeners)
"It is not mindless scrolling. It is a fashion pursuit I do it often and when you score that rare data's collab or the Dior saddlebag that you've been manifesting Boom, it is a rush" — Alex Cooper (describing her experience shopping on eBay)
The host begins by reflecting on her fiancé Matt's absence due to his demanding film schedule, humorously detailing the minor annoyances of his presence, such as snoring, and contrasting them with the personal space she enjoys while he's away. She then transitions into a deeper discussion about loneliness and personal growth, challenging the common narrative that one's twenties are the pinnacle of life. Cooper argues that this decade is often characterized by instability, lack of self-knowledge, and financial pressures, and that it's a period of significant struggle for many. She critiques the often-unrealistic portrayal of life on social media, encouraging listeners to be critical of what they consume and to prioritize their own well-being.
The conversation shifts to personal updates, including a recent company retreat and her evolving perspective on her upcoming wedding. Cooper expresses excitement for her thirties, noting a newfound sense of clarity, confidence, and the ability to set healthier boundaries, contrasting this with the perceived societal pressures and judgment women face upon reaching this age. She also shares a personal health update regarding potential stomach issues and a doctor's suggestion of a gluten allergy, which she views with a mix of humor and concern, highlighting her love for carb-heavy foods.
Finally, Cooper announces an impromptu trip to London to visit Matt, emphasizing the importance of intentional time together before their wedding. She expresses excitement about experiencing the city where their relationship blossomed and potentially visiting his movie sets. The episode concludes with a promise of future discussions on wedding planning and a reminder to listeners to be kind to themselves and to disconnect from social media when feeling overwhelmed.