Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"The more I talked about it and the more I kept having to read the book over and over. And it's almost like I conquered something that I don't, I don't cry about anymore. It's like, it was very healing." — Adrina Patrick
"When you're told you're a piece of shit every day, you begin to believe it. It becomes your reality. You stop fighting back and slowly start to die inside." — Adrina Patrick
"Abusive relationships aren't always physical. It's emotional, it's being called a piece of shit. It's, you know, being put down all the time. Internally, it takes a long time to recover from that and to get your confidence back." — Adrina Patrick
Adrina Patrick joins Alex Cooper to discuss her new book, "Choices to the Hills and Back Again." Patrick explains that her inspiration for writing the book stemmed from the overwhelming number of direct messages from fans seeking advice and relatable experiences. She candidly discusses her journey through the reality television world, beginning with her casting on "The Hills." Patrick recounts how she was discovered by a producer while living in Los Angeles, initially pursuing a career in psychology before shifting her focus to acting and eventually reality TV. She reflects on her early days on "The Hills," her iconic style, and her much-discussed relationship with Justin Bobby, noting that while the on-screen portrayal captured aspects of their dynamic, the producers often focused on drama over their genuine interactions.
The conversation delves into Patrick's experiences with past toxic relationships, particularly her marriage to Corey. She shares the red flags and manipulative tactics she endured, including constant accusations of infidelity and attempts to control her social media. Patrick details the emotional toll of these experiences, emphasizing that abuse is not solely physical but also encompasses emotional and verbal degradation. She describes the difficulty of hiding such relationships from loved ones and the prolonged pain of infidelity, which significantly impacted her self-worth. Patrick also touches upon the challenges of motherhood within these difficult circumstances, highlighting instances where her ex-husband's priorities were misaligned with the needs of their child.
Towards the end of the discussion, Patrick reflects on her healing process, crediting faith and a strong support system for her recovery. She emphasizes the importance of setting firm boundaries in future relationships and prioritizing her daughter's well-being. Patrick also shares her thoughts on the evolution of reality television, noting a perceived increase in scripted elements. She expresses a cautious but intrigued perspective on the upcoming "new generation" of "The Hills" cast. The interview concludes with Patrick promoting her podcast, "Brody and Frankie," a "Hills" rewatch podcast, and her continued hope for personal growth and healthy future relationships.