Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"I'm essentially over here kind of having a rebirth because I am marrying. Oh my god, I am marrying a Jewish man. I love my Jewish boy." — Alex Cooper
"It is hurtful when you don't get your significant other a gift. And then you never even address it. Like I could have at least like I said said like it's coming. Don't worry. It's in the process. It's taking super long. At least he would have known some things coming." — Alex Cooper
"I think the moral of the story is like, I got to do less. Like I am so fucking good at giving gifts. I got to do less. And by less, I mean every five years, Matt gets a gift. And every year, I get a gift from Matt." — Alex Cooper
The episode begins with a humorous recollection of discovering Santa Claus's non-existence, setting a nostalgic and lighthearted tone. The host, Alex Cooper, shares personal stories about her own childhood experiences with Santa and how she is now navigating Christmas traditions with her fiancé, who is Jewish. This interfaith dynamic is a central theme, as she details incorporating his family's traditions while also sharing her own. The narrative then shifts to the often-stressful topic of gift-giving. Cooper candidly discusses past gift-giving mishaps and the anxiety associated with finding the perfect present, particularly for men. She shares a detailed account of creating a meticulously crafted, personalized book for her fiancé as a very late Christmas gift, highlighting the sentimental value and effort involved in such gestures. This leads to a discussion on the importance of communication in relationships regarding gifts, emphasizing that expressing thoughts and efforts, even if delayed, is crucial to avoid misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
Cooper further delves into her history of gift-giving, recounting how she used to strategically "trade up" gifts received from partners, sometimes even involving them in the exchange process. She reflects on this behavior as manipulative but acknowledges the desire to make memorable gestures. She contrasts this past approach with her current relationship, noting that with her fiancé, she has retired these tactics, recognizing that genuine connection and respect are more valuable than elaborate, manipulative gifts. The episode concludes with reflections on the holiday season, its emotional impact, and personal holiday plans, including celebrating her fiancé's grandmother's 100th birthday and a skiing trip. She also offers advice on managing expectations during the holidays and encourages listeners to focus on self-happiness and genuine connection.