Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"It doesn't mean that we want to be raped. And actually, in our fantasies, it's consensual. If we think about it, we actually, it's not like we want to be hurt, we don't actually want to be raped. We don't want a stranger to break in." — Emily Morse
"The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings. A penis has four. Bitches. 4,000. Let's only 4,000. Half." — Alex Cooper
"You are responsible for your own orgasm. It's not about anyone giving you an orgasm. It's not about them figuring out your body." — Alex Cooper
The episode begins with host Alex Cooper sharing a humorous personal anecdote about accidentally DMing the wrong person with explicit content, highlighting the complexities of dating individuals with private social media accounts and the importance of verifying identities. This segues into a robust discussion with sex therapist Emily Morse, covering a wide spectrum of sexual topics.
The conversation delves into common sexual fantasies, particularly those related to "forced sex" or rape fantasies, emphasizing that these are normal and common, and do not reflect a desire for actual non-consensual acts. Morse explains psychological theories behind these fantasies, including the desire to absolve oneself of sexual responsibility due to societal shame, the enjoyment of intense desire, and the role-play aspect of power dynamics. They also address the challenges and societal taboos surrounding female masturbation and the importance of open conversations among friends.
The discussion then pivots to practical advice for achieving sexual satisfaction, stressing the importance of self-knowledge and communication. Cooper and Morse highlight that most women do not orgasm from penetration alone, and direct clitoral stimulation is often necessary. They advocate for exploring one's own body, using lubricants, and understanding the anatomy of the vulva and clitoris. Advice is also provided on navigating differing sex drives in relationships, the benefits of foreplay, and techniques for achieving orgasm, including the possibility of "squirting." The episode concludes with listeners' questions about dating advice, dealing with potential non-consensual content, and enhancing intimacy in long-term relationships.