Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"I think the best relationships like you have to I mean obviously they say that like if you're super passionate in the beginning like it will burn out quick but like I think you have to really really click with someone you can't just be like oh I like spending time with this person like you have to be like holy shit this is the person I'm obsessed with them like at least especially in the beginning." — Alex Cooper
"I'm not here to like find a man like I'm just not and I don't care if men are like oh Olivia's a man hater like she's too much like she's just gonna like be a bitch you like I don't like I'm here to fucking do my thing yeah like get my own shit and like yeah make real money yeah music." — Olivia O'Brien
"And the fact that you can do that not once it's you you're doing it for a certain amount of time right you get caught you say you're never gonna do it again and then you do it again." — Alex Cooper
The episode opens with Alex Cooper recounting a recent dating experience in LA, including a surprising encounter with an ex-girlfriend of "Suit Man" and a promising dinner date with a new individual. The conversation then shifts to Olivia O'Brien, discussing her views on modern dating, her preference for "internet boys" who provide content rather than serious commitment, and her past experiences with relationships that have triggered depression. Both Alex and Olivia express shared frustrations with men and the difficulty of finding genuine connection in environments where superficiality is common.
The discussion delves into various aspects of dating, including the dynamics of who makes the effort to visit whose house, the importance of not being overly available, and the common experience of men who engage in infidelity. They share anecdotes about friends who have been mistreated or cheated on, highlighting the emotional toll these situations take. The latter half of the episode focuses on Olivia's musical journey, her accidental hit song "i hate u i love u," and her move to LA to pursue her career. The conversation also touches upon the difficulties of dating in the entertainment industry, the pressure to maintain a certain image, and the importance of self-worth independent of romantic validation.
Towards the end, Alex and Olivia discuss their personal journeys towards self-acceptance and confidence, emphasizing the need to focus on personal growth and career aspirations over romantic pursuits. They share humorous and candid stories about sexual experiences and the challenges women face in achieving satisfaction, while also encouraging listeners to prioritize their own pleasure and well-being. The episode concludes with Alex expressing her excitement for a potential surprise guest on the following week's show.