"We want to add emotions. We want to let you guys know because the thing is is like, we are humans. We do have feelings. It's not always savage, and it's always going to be savage, but like, we do want to bring that into it." — Alex Cooper
"I think that getting the DM from the girl that your boyfriend cheated on you with is extremely threatening. And what I would suggest to this girl is don't reach out to his girlfriend directly. But I do think that she should threaten the guy." — Alex Cooper
"The thing is, daddy gang, is like, make sure if you're going in for a first impression, you're not overthinking it. Sounds so cliché. Be yourself. It is yourself." — Alex Cooper
The hosts open the new year with a declaration of "we're fucking back," signaling a renewed focus on authenticity and a commitment to being more vulnerable with their audience. They acknowledge a perceived gap in their previous content, realizing they haven't delved into the emotional aspects of their lives and relationships. This leads to a discussion about personal insecurities and past struggles, including mental health challenges, which they plan to address more openly in 2020. A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to a recent negative experience where Alex discovered a voicemail from friends speaking negatively about her and the podcast. This incident fuels their resolve to be more open about their vulnerabilities and the real-life challenges they face, contrasting it with the curated nature of social media.
The conversation then shifts to relationships, with Sofia announcing she is dating someone new, whom she plans to introduce as a character on the show. They discuss the challenges of maintaining privacy in early dating stages and the potential for new relationship dynamics to provide compelling content. This segues into a segment on navigating first impressions, offering advice to listeners on what behaviors to avoid when meeting a partner's family and friends, and conversely, what behaviors men should exhibit. They humorously dissect common pitfalls for both men and women, emphasizing authenticity over performative actions.
Later, the hosts explore the topic of "sex turbulence" and the awkwardness that can arise when sexual encounters don't go as planned due to logistical issues or a lack of communication. They share personal anecdotes involving unconventional locations and positions, highlighting the importance of open dialogue and problem-solving during intimacy. The episode also addresses listener submissions, including scenarios involving infidelity, revenge tactics, and the complexities of casual sex and transactional relationships. The hosts provide direct, albeit sometimes controversial, advice on these matters, reinforcing their commitment to unfiltered discussions.