Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"Basically, you guys fucked. You're ego might hurt a little. But the moral of it is that you'll never really know if it was because you fucked or because you didn't. That's hard to. Yeah. You know, move on." — Sophia
"For my game personally, I don't like to give it up. I like to make them work for it. I'm not a fucking tease, but I never have sex with them in like the first month to two months at all." — Alex Cooper
"The post-night clarity guys, every single guy has has after they come. They literally sit there and they are just in a different dimension. That is why sometimes girls get butt hurt when your guy gets up and he walks to the bathroom." — Alex Cooper
This episode of Call Her Daddy tackles the controversial yet common topic of first-date intimacy. Hosts Alex Cooper and Sophia explore the various perspectives and personal strategies surrounding having sex on a first date. They discuss the potential for ghosting and how the decision to engage in sexual activity can sometimes exacerbate feelings of hurt or confusion if the interaction doesn't lead to further contact. The conversation highlights the differing approaches individuals take, with some preferring immediate intimacy and others employing a more delayed strategy to build anticipation and perceived value.
The hosts differentiate their personal dating philosophies, with Sophia sharing her experience of relationships often starting with partying and hookups, while Alex emphasizes a more calculated approach of making partners wait, believing it increases their investment and her control over the trajectory of the relationship. They discuss the societal double standards that can lead to women being judged for their sexual assertiveness or performance, while simultaneously exploring different techniques and levels of intimacy that can be strategically employed.
A significant portion of the discussion centers on managing expectations and understanding "post-night clarity," the moment of realization men often experience after sex. They also delve into the nuances of "face fucking" and the physical realities and potential challenges associated with oral sex techniques, offering advice on how to navigate awkward or potentially unpleasant situations. The episode concludes by addressing listener-submitted questions, covering topics like accidental sexting, condom mishaps, ending casual relationships, and giving feedback on sexual performance, all while reinforcing the podcast's core message of empowering listeners in their dating and sexual lives.