Call Her Daddy
Call Her Daddy
"My happiest moments have not been with any of that bullshit. My happiest moments is just when I fucking feel so good in my own skin. And then that shit, just like, it's like an energy that shocks people." — Hannah Berner
"It's not about looks. AKA what your fingers look like. Like, what, what did you do? ... The less time you try to change yourself and find happiness and chase it and work for things and force things, it's all already there." — Hannah Berner
"The fact that you have to articulate it, like, I'm not being shady, but then I'm going off the grid and like, taking a nap and relaxing, and he's like, where are you? And I'm like, oh, like, I have to communicate." — Alex Cooper
The episode features a candid conversation between Alex Cooper and comedian Hannah Berner, focusing on Berner's recent engagement. The discussion begins with a reflection on their shared past as "degenerates" in the dating world, contrasting it with their current relationship statuses. Berner shares the story of her proposal, highlighting the blend of humor and genuine emotion involved, and discusses how her past dating experiences served as valuable "research" for identifying her ideal partner. The conversation delves into the complexities of modern dating, societal pressures around marriage, and the importance of self-acceptance. Both hosts emphasize that true happiness in relationships comes from within, advocating for authenticity and self-love as foundational elements for attracting and maintaining a healthy partnership. They also touch upon the challenges of public scrutiny, the impact of social media, and the necessity of open communication, particularly regarding personal needs like alone time.
The discussion extends to the practicalities and emotional considerations surrounding marriage, including the significance of the ring and the proposal itself, personal preferences for wedding celebrations, and the evolving roles of women in relationships. Berner articulates that her current mindset values partnership as an enhancement to her already fulfilling life, rather than a necessity for completion. Cooper echoes this sentiment, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and a partner who supports one's individual journey and career. The episode concludes with reflections on friendship, mental well-being, and the courage to be oneself, both on and off camera, offering listeners encouragement to embrace their own paths to happiness.